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07/30/2014
- Maria Mejia
- I am a Latina, HIV positive, a lesbian and a woman! Four strikes against me, but I am not out!
Many know the struggles that we go through if we have any of these categories with stigma and discrimination! Imagine having these four (strikes) working against you and still trying to show that you are worthy and that you can make it! Well of course we can! No matter what things in life are against us, we must never let anything stop us or bring us down!
I must be real ... I have been discriminated more for being a lesbian woman who is happily married and very vocal about whom I love, "my best friend and partner in life, Lisa Laing."
I am a pretty known international social media activist and when I started social media, I would get around 20 emails a day. Now it is up to 1000 some days. Between my emails, blogs, vlogs in my YouTube channel, my Facebook activism page, my two international support groups with people from all over the world in English and Spanish, my website and my Twitter account, it is insane, and I know the more people know me around the world, the more I would be exposed to judgement. I try and help and give hope as much as I can. I find it kind of ironic that some of the same people who I have helped and want me to represent them and fight HIV/AIDS stigma are the ones stigmatizing me for my lifestyle and who I love! This is not right! I feel a sense of betrayal when they tell me I make them uncomfortable when they read me expressing my love for my wife Lisa! I will be damned if I stop being me to make others comfortable! If you cannot accept all of me, do not accept me at all.
I have zero tolerance for ignorance! And yes, I have tried to educate those in places where they were taught we were deviants, and tell them God is love and where there is love, God is there. Some have learned to accept and respect me for who I am (all of me). It is so sad to see people who are being discriminated and stigmatized because they have HIV tell me, "Oh Maria, you are doing God's work, but tainting it with your lifestyle!" (Get a freaking life.) Or telling me that they felt sorry for me until they saw I was a lesbian! I do not need pity from anyone! I am not a victim! I am a woman who is proud and is happy with who she is!
Do not waste your time quoting the Bible to me (which happens every day)! I know the Bible! I am a Christian! You can't choose what you want in the Bible to attack other human beings!! If you are going to tell me that I am going to hell for who I love, then you have to also follow the rules of those times ... be OK with slavery! Get executed for being a non virgin! And get stoned to death for eating shellfish! It is all there. Please learn not to judge others, and not try to be in the position of God (if you are a true Christian, you are breaking the number one rule!! Thou shall not judge).
I really believe loving God is shown through your deeds and having a pure heart and soul.
I am loyal and faithful, and a woman who is a work in progress. I am not perfect! But then again, no one is. I can tell you though that when I am told that they can't wait to see when my corpse is rotting in hell and they hope I pay and die soon, I pray for them and pity them! And I think, "Wow!!!! Is this someone who is actually following Christ with so much hate?" Notttttt!
Live and let live! If you are someone who is being bullied or being hated on or judged by people like this, know you are so loved and worthy! And you have the right to be who you want to be as long as you don't hurt anyone else.
Be proud of who you are and do not let anyone else tell you differently. Sometimes the people with so much hate who say these horrible things are people who have self hate, and their words are a pure reflection of who they are and they need to put others down to feel important. Wish them well, even if they persecute you! I know it is hard, but love transforms hate and I hope I can see the day that people are more compassionate and have more empathy! Words hurt, but we have to develop hard skin and know that we are OK! It is them who have the need to hurt others
Many know the struggles that we go through if we have any of these categories with stigma and discrimination! Imagine having these four (strikes) working against you and still trying to show that you are worthy and that you can make it! Well of course we can! No matter what things in life are against us, we must never let anything stop us or bring us down!
I must be real ... I have been discriminated more for being a lesbian woman who is happily married and very vocal about whom I love, "my best friend and partner in life, Lisa Laing."
I am a pretty known international social media activist and when I started social media, I would get around 20 emails a day. Now it is up to 1000 some days. Between my emails, blogs, vlogs in my YouTube channel, my Facebook activism page, my two international support groups with people from all over the world in English and Spanish, my website and my Twitter account, it is insane, and I know the more people know me around the world, the more I would be exposed to judgement. I try and help and give hope as much as I can. I find it kind of ironic that some of the same people who I have helped and want me to represent them and fight HIV/AIDS stigma are the ones stigmatizing me for my lifestyle and who I love! This is not right! I feel a sense of betrayal when they tell me I make them uncomfortable when they read me expressing my love for my wife Lisa! I will be damned if I stop being me to make others comfortable! If you cannot accept all of me, do not accept me at all.
I have zero tolerance for ignorance! And yes, I have tried to educate those in places where they were taught we were deviants, and tell them God is love and where there is love, God is there. Some have learned to accept and respect me for who I am (all of me). It is so sad to see people who are being discriminated and stigmatized because they have HIV tell me, "Oh Maria, you are doing God's work, but tainting it with your lifestyle!" (Get a freaking life.) Or telling me that they felt sorry for me until they saw I was a lesbian! I do not need pity from anyone! I am not a victim! I am a woman who is proud and is happy with who she is!
Do not waste your time quoting the Bible to me (which happens every day)! I know the Bible! I am a Christian! You can't choose what you want in the Bible to attack other human beings!! If you are going to tell me that I am going to hell for who I love, then you have to also follow the rules of those times ... be OK with slavery! Get executed for being a non virgin! And get stoned to death for eating shellfish! It is all there. Please learn not to judge others, and not try to be in the position of God (if you are a true Christian, you are breaking the number one rule!! Thou shall not judge).
I really believe loving God is shown through your deeds and having a pure heart and soul.
I am loyal and faithful, and a woman who is a work in progress. I am not perfect! But then again, no one is. I can tell you though that when I am told that they can't wait to see when my corpse is rotting in hell and they hope I pay and die soon, I pray for them and pity them! And I think, "Wow!!!! Is this someone who is actually following Christ with so much hate?" Notttttt!
Live and let live! If you are someone who is being bullied or being hated on or judged by people like this, know you are so loved and worthy! And you have the right to be who you want to be as long as you don't hurt anyone else.
Be proud of who you are and do not let anyone else tell you differently. Sometimes the people with so much hate who say these horrible things are people who have self hate, and their words are a pure reflection of who they are and they need to put others down to feel important. Wish them well, even if they persecute you! I know it is hard, but love transforms hate and I hope I can see the day that people are more compassionate and have more empathy! Words hurt, but we have to develop hard skin and know that we are OK! It is them who have the need to hurt others
